If you show up, engage with the process, and genuinely do the work, we are not going to disappear on you if things still feel stuck.

If you complete:

-70% of the lessons + guided date nights

- and attend 70% of the live calls

…and you don’t experience meaningful shifts in your connection, intimacy, or relationship dynamic…I will continue supporting you with monthly 1:1 coaching sessions until you do.

You have 12 months of access but, truly, there is no falling behind — there is only pausing and restarting. Life lifes. Kids get sick. Work explodes. Seasons get hard.

What I'd encourage you to resist is the shame spiral that happens when you miss a week or two — the "we failed again" story that makes it feel easier to just not try. The community is there specifically for that moment.

You post that you're restarting, someone cheers you on, and you get back in. The cohort structure gives you momentum when you're in it. The 12-month access gives you a safety net when life intervenes.

This is a real and important question — and I'm glad you're asking it. Nervous system work can stir things up before it settles. You might have a harder conversation. A date night might surface something you've been avoiding. Your partner might feel more activated, not less, when the topic of intimacy becomes a regular part of your life.

This is normal. It's not a sign the work isn't working — it's a sign it is. The Big Feelings Protocol bonus is specifically designed for these moments. The community is there. The coaching calls are there.

And if things feel genuinely destabilizing — not just uncomfortable, but actually destabilizing — bring it to a call immediately. I will meet you there.

It builds gradually — which is intentional. We start PG.

Month 1 is about non-sexual affection and communication.

Month 2 is about nervous system safety and transition.

Month 3 is where we move into more explicitly sexual territory — initiation, anatomy, what your body actually needs.

Month 4 is integration.

At no point is anyone required to share explicit details in the community or on calls. The explicit content happens in your private date nights, guided by my frameworks.

If you joined with a hesitant partner, starting PG is actually the best possible thing — it removes the pressure and lets their nervous system build trust before anything more vulnerable is asked of them.

The biweekly calls are a mix of three things: additional interactive activities (including some solo somatic work you can do quietly on your own), group Q&A, and hot seat coaching time where I go deeper with specific couples on what they're navigating.

You can submit questions anonymously through a form before the call, ask off-camera, or participate fully — it's all challenge by choice. Nobody has to share anything they're not ready to share.

All calls are recorded with replays, and you also have access to me in the community Monday to Friday.

There are some solo pleasure exploration options in the program — but these are completely optional. I provide alternatives for anyone who does not wish to participate, and your faith and values are fully respected throughout. You will never be asked to do anything that conflicts with your beliefs. Everything is challenge by choice.

Therapy helps you fight less. I help you touch, laugh, flirt, and actually want sex more. Different jobs. | Therapy processes the past. This builds skills for the future — through guided date nights and interactive activities, not by talking about problems in a room. | If you're already in couples therapy, this pairs beautifully with it. They do different things.

Nobody is sharing positions or triggers in a chat box. Camera off, anonymous questions, as private as you need.

The reason it's a cohort: shame dies in the light. The moment you see a chat full of other exhausted parents going through the exact same thing, the "I'm broken" story in your head disappears.

And if you run into someone you know? That person is brave enough to be doing the same work. That's worth celebrating.

Yes — you can join solo and lead. Alex signed up alone. Within weeks his partner was the one asking to do the date nights. What you need from your partner is not full enthusiasm — just willingness to press play on one date night per week. I give you the Invitation Script to make the ask feel like a team project, not a performance review.

You don't need them perfect. You need them present enough to try once.