You Don't Have a Sex Problem. You Have a Skills Problem.
Why the magic disappeared after kids — and why waiting for it to come back is the wrong plan entirely.
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One part science of science, one part magic, and one part real talk for busy parents (of all identities) who want to find the play and the sexy in their couple connection after kids
New Episodes Every Tuesday
We dish...
Dispatches from the bedroom
Tips and tools to get grounded into your pleasure
My fave tools for connecting with each other post kids
Info and inspiration to help you figure out what’s got you in a sexual stalemate and how to get out of it
No judgement advice for all partners
Recent Episodes
The Sex After Kids Podcast
She Didn't Stop Wanting Him. She Stopped Wanting the Aftermath.
A coaching call moment that explains more about women's sexuality than most of us learned in a lifetime.
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Real Sex Is Awkward. Here's What To Do When It Is.
A bedroom dispatch from my actual life - and the mindset shift that changed everything.
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The Four Traps Keeping Good Men Stuck — And What To Do Instead
And what I kept noticing is that most of these men are not lazy, checked-out, or indifferent. They're trying. Hard. They're just stuck in patterns that feel like love but are quietly making things worse.
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The 6 Shields Low Libido Partners Hide Behind (And Why They're Keeping You Stuck)
This week on the Sex After Kids podcast, we're talking about the six "shields" that low libido partners hide behind — the subtle, often unconscious behaviours that feel like survival but are quietly widening the gap in your marriage.
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You're Not "Low Libido." You're Over-Needed
The five ways you're accidentally hiding from your sex life — and how to find your way back.
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