Tired of feeling shut out of the bedroom after kidss?

Turn "Not Tonight" into "Let's Stay Up Late"

Rediscover the spark without awkward talks, forced date nights, or getting shot down,
even if sex feels off the table lately with this 14 day challenge.


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The Real Reason You Feel Like Roommates, Not Lovers After Kids


Maybe it’s been 6 weeks since you’ve had sex and maybe it’s been six months. Either way since the kids came along  the romance has been sucked out of the room and you find yourself in roommate mode. 

You love your person, but you don’t feel loved.

You’ve tried being patient, you’ve tried fancy date nights, you’ve tried talking about it, maybe you’ve even tried counselling. Sex is important to you and it feels like the last thing on earth your partner wants to do. 

When you do it, it’s got “get it over with” vibes that feel icky. 

You can feel your partner praying you don’t make an ask at bedtime. 

You lie awkwardly next to each other at night unsure what the next move is.

You my friend are caught on the sex avoidance merry-go-round where the harder you try to fix the problem - the more your partner shrinks back. 

You are not alone

Over 15% of couples report not having had sex in the last year. And the biggest sex challenge in a long term relationship is missmatched sex drives.

YOU AREN'T DOING IT WRONG - NO ONE TAUGHT YOU

High school sex ed covered how to not make a baby and not get a disease, but skipped the lesson on how to keep desire alive after 10 years and 3 kids.

SHAME AND FEAR ARE DRIVING THE BUS

And trying the same strategies on repeat and calling that "doing something" is not where it's at. You need real solutions that are practical for the realities of busy parents. And I've got you.


Believing your are both broken has got you stuck in the avoidance dance which leads to resentment, frustration and staying together for the sake of the kids.

The question is how do you keep the Passion and Play Alive
when sex feels like a chore and you're walking on eggshells around intimacy?

INTRODUCING

The Roommates To Romance Challenge


A 14 Day process to find the fun and the flirt without awkward pressure - guaranteed

I create the Roommates to Romance Challenge to get you out of constant shutdown and back into fun flirty connection - so the door opens to sex and intimacy.

STUPID SIMPLE TOUCH AND CONNECTION THAT BRINGS THE "WE'RE SO IN LOVE" VIBES

without

forced date nights

Endless talks

rejection spirals

Here's What's Waiting for you

The 14 DAy Touch Reset Plan

No More Guessing, Awkwardness, or Mixed Signals

 You’ll get a done-for-you roadmap of tiny daily challenges that rebuild safety, trust, and desire—so reconnecting feels easy, not forced (even if your partner isn’t “in” yet).

The Safe Touch blueprint

Know Exactly How to Make Your Partner Feel Wanted—Without Pressure

 Follow step-by-step touch scripts and connection prompts that instantly lower your partner’s guard and invite closeness. Perfect for busy parents who want more spark but less stress.

Flirty Micro connection prompts

Bring Back Playfulness and Real Smiles—No Big Talks Required

 Unlock simple ways to flirt, play, and create warmth every day. These micro-actions turn boring routines into moments of fun, laughter, and maybe even spontaneous intimacy.

-BONUS -

Rejection Recovery ToolKIT

Handle “Not Tonight” Like a Pro—With Zero Drama  Get expert tools and scripts to gracefully navigate those inevitable “not now” moments—so you stay confident, connected, and out of the shame spiral and avoid sabotaging your progress.

-BONUS-

Mindfull Self-Pleasure Method

Stay Grounded, Meet Your Needs, Feel Good in Your Body Learn healthy, shame-free solo rituals that help you manage your own desire and avoid building resentment—so you show up calm, connected, and ready for real intimacy.

This is the place where high libido partners become mind readers and master initiators, and low libido partners find their desire for connection again.

Real Results - Real People

Our Naked Sexy Fun Times was a success. We went to bed late but happy.

- Marie - France

This should be mandatory for anyone past the honeymoon state in their relationship.

- Jennifer

Our talk and your podcast completely helped me reframe some of the fears and insecurities I had in my marriage that were causing me major distress. You've got an amazing precense and gift.

- Mark

The challenge was so great. We need to do this every year.

- Steph

The secret that took me 10 years and thousands of dollars to unlock

You see. I am a version of your lower libido partner. Maxed out after a step-son, two babies, neurodiverse kids, a stressful job and an autoimmune disorder that killed my libido - I literally felt like life would be fine if sex never happened again.

Counselling, books, new toys and lingerie - weren't getting my body on board with the idea that sex could be a safe, fun, relaxing place to go.

Then I used my ten years of experience as a Certified Intimacy Coach to design my own approach to having sex without forcing myself. Now 10 years and three kids in we are in the best era of our sex life yet.

I'm going to share the exact protocol I used with my partner so we could both initiate with confidence and get you from "I'm too tired" to "I'm into it".

reaching for each other again. Feeling wanted. Feeling Loved.

This is Where We Go from Tense Touch to Trusted Tenderness in Just 14 Days

The Real REason YOu can have this for less than the Price of a Latte

You might be wondering, “If this works so well, why isn’t it $300?”

Simple: I believe every couple deserves a real shot at playful, pressure-free intimacy, without breaking the bank.

I spent years (and thousands of dollars on therapy, books, and awkward date nights) searching for answers. What finally worked wasn’t complicated or expensive—it was this step-by-step process.

I’m on a mission to make this accessible to as many couples as possible, because I know how lonely and hopeless it can feel to be stuck in ‘roommate mode.’

Instead of keeping this locked away as a high-ticket program, I want to hand you the exact roadmap that’s changed my life (and the lives of my clients) for less than the price of a fancy coffee run.

If you’re ready to take the first step, you can grab the whole system today for just $9.

No subscriptions —just a real solution that works.

Because you deserve to feel wanted, desired, and connected—starting right now.

The Roommates to Romance Challenge

New crush vibes from the early days of your relationship -
for less than a fancy coffee

The 14 Day Touch Reset Plan. . . . . . . . . . . . . (Value $47)


The Safe Touch Blueprint . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . (Value $99)


Rejection Recovery Bonus. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . (Value $47


Mindful Self Pleasure . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . (Value $147)


TOTAL VALUE = ($340)

Today's Price = $9

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I've used this exact process to bring back the love vibes in my own relationship. But if you are feeling doubtful

Buy it now. Do all 14 days of connection prompts and if you don't see a result, we'll give you your money back.

Frequently Asked Questions

How Can I do the Challenge Without My Partner?

This is the beauty of the challenge, it doesn’t require your partner to do anything. They don’t need to do the lessons or lead any activities - they are just going to respond to you changing how you show up. They can always join you part way through if they get into it!

I want to take action, but don't want my partner to feel pressure -is this for me?

Yes! I have designed specifically with you in mind. If talking about your sex life results in shutdown, and you are walking on eggshells right now unsure what to do - this is your first step. Follow this step by step process to get out of shutdown, and open the door to intimacy and naked fun. The program is made to meet your partner where they are at.

We haven't had sex in a while, will this work for us?

The challenge has been designed to meet you where you are at and will coach you through different scenarios. If you are barely flirting and touching and haven’t had sex in weeks - the goal will be to get back to a more flirty and loving day to day relationship and then we can build from there. If you are getting to sex on a semi regular basis but want to turn want more heat - this will turn things up.

Is it just for me, or high libido partners?

The stereotype that only men have higher libidos is just that - a  stereotype. This is a gender neutral challenge geared towards the higher libido partner (regardless of what’s between their legs) to take the lead, and it’s also designed for you both to take it together if your partner chooses to engage. Lower libido partners can sign up for the challenge and get a ton out of it as well.

We are super busy? How long is everything?

The challenge has been designed to meet you where you are at and will coach you through different scenarios. If you are barely flirting and touching and haven’t had sex in weeks - the goal will be to get back to a more flirty and loving day to day relationship and then we can build from there. If you are getting to sex on a semi regular basis but want to turn want more heat - this will turn things up.

What happens if I do everything right and my partner doesn't respond.

Let me be crystal clear here, not every relationship will change, because you can only control your actions not your partner’s.

If your partner is unwilling to engage on the topic of sex this process will give you clarity and confidence to make your next move, whatever that is. Either it will work, you will see a shift and results for a new path for your relationship or you will have a better understanding of how best to move forward.

The couples who have the most success in these types of situations usually have me as a neutral third party coach to help uncover blindspots and remove roadblocks.

If you ever feel unsafe or unsupported, please know this program is not a substitute for therapy or professional help. Only you can decide what’s best for you.

What If I get stuck and feel discouraged

You’re not alone! Your body will fight you tooth and nail when you try to make a change (even a good one). That’s why you can upgrade to get personalized support from me for all 14 days of the challenge. For only $47 bucks! Why ? Cause I don’t want this to be another thing you download and ignore. Let’s work together to get you flirting and feel good. Available to the first 15 folks at checkout.

What if my partner gets suspicious and asks what I am doing?

I hear you. I have a whole script and process for you to let your partner know what you are doing and why. We don’t need to stealth ninja this on them and best results will come from being open about your intentions and desires

What if we have deeper issues like trauma and infidelity?

This challenge is designed for couples who want to reconnect and rebuild intimacy, not as a substitute for therapy or professional help with deeper issues. If you’re dealing with trauma or significant relationship wounds, consider seeking the support of a therapist or counselor.

Is this Therapy?

No, this is not therapy. It’s a practical, action-based challenge designed to help you reconnect and build intimacy, whether or not you’re also in counseling.

If you are tired of lying awkwardly next to each other at night.
What have you got to lose?