One part science of science, one part magic, and one part real talk for busy parents (of all identities) who want to find the play and the sexy in their couple connection after kids

New Episodes Every Tuesday

We dish...

  • Dispatches from the bedroom

  • Tips and tools to get grounded into your pleasure

  • My fave tools for connecting with each other post kids

  • Info and inspiration to help you figure out what’s got you in a sexual stalemate and how to get out of it

  • No judgement advice for all partners

Recent Episodes

The Sex After Kids Podcast

Foreplay Games for Couples: Playful Ways to Get Out of the Roommate Rut After Kids - especially when it’s been a while

Foreplay Games for Couples: Playful Ways to Get Out of the Roommate Rut After Kids - especially when it’s been a while

Feeling awkward about intimacy after kids, or stuck in the “roommate rut?” You’re not alone. In this episode, I share why foreplay is the real secret to rekindling connection—and how to make it feel safe, pressure-free, and fun.

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The Truth About Scheduled Sex: How to Rekindle Intimacy in Marriage

The Truth About Scheduled Sex: How to Rekindle Intimacy in Marriage

Is scheduled sex really the death of desire…or is it your secret weapon for reigniting connection after kids? In this episode, I bust the myths about putting sex on the calendar—and show you how to turn obligation into anticipation.

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Best Sex Books for Couples: Expert Picks for a Better Love Life

Best Sex Books for Couples: Expert Picks for a Better Love Life

Feeling like “roommates” instead of lovers? You’re not alone. In this episode, I share my absolute favourite sex books that every parent should have on their nightstand—plus the real-life stories and expert tips behind each pick.

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Tired of Couples Counselling? Try These Relationship-Saving Alternatives

Tired of Couples Counselling? Try These Relationship-Saving Alternatives

In this episode I share when my partner and I went to a couples counsellor after the birth of our first child. From my post-partum anxiety I was experiencing resentment and contempt and didn’t want this to be the theme of our relationship.

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The One Secret That Changed My Sex Life After Kids

The One Secret That Changed My Sex Life After Kids

In this deeply personal episode, I’m sharing the one secret that helped me go from six months of shut-down to regularly saying yes (and even initiating!)—without faking, forcing, or bypassing my body’s needs.

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Fixing the Mental Load Won’t Save Your Sex Life

Fixing the Mental Load Won’t Save Your Sex Life

What does balancing the mental load, chores and childcare have to do with libido - a lot, and fixing the mental load in your home after kids is still not a silver bullet for your sex life. Let’s talk about why and what to do about it.

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Take the Solve Your Sex Drive Quiz

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Figure out what’s blocking your sex drive after kids

Initiate a playful low pressure connection date with your partner even if you don’t have the time, energy, or desire for sex