Make your
Naked Fun Comeback
After Kids
A Sex Coach in Your Pocket on
The Sex After Kids Podcast
We dish...
Dispatches from the bedroom
Tips and tools to get grounded into your pleasure
My fave tools for connecting with each other post kids
Info and inspiration to help you figure out what’s got you in a sexual stalemate and how to get out of it
No judgement advice for all partners
What Is Sex After Kids
What started as a quest to find the mighty orgasm has become a movement of mamas finding the path back to their pleasure and themselves after childbirth and motherhood.
We believe that becoming BFFs with your vagina is the way back to pleasure and yourself.
We know that you are not broken. That your body knows what it needs, and if we give you the tools to listen you can transform your sex life and your relationship.
We know that this is not just your problem to fix, sex is relational and you need the tools to work WITH your partner to build the sex life you both want together.
We believe that parenthood is a potent portal for transformation in our lives.
We believe that knowledge is power and the patriarchy has kept the path to our pleasure secret for too long
We believe that vulvas have faced violence and silence for far too long.
We believe that everyone, and especially men, are part of the solution.
We believe that reclaiming the joy and pleasure in our lives we can resist the systems that keep us down and change the world.
We believe that every person has the right to fully express themselves as they are and to love who they want to love in safety.
We believe that the orgasm gap MUST end for true equality in the world.
Hey There, I'm Sofia
I am your totally TMI bestie who has been giving sex advice since high school. I am a certified sex coach and educator with over 10 years experience teaching adults, teens and tots about sex, pleasure, consent and relationships.
I am a mama and step mama living in a neurospicy household and a blended family just trying to keep my libido alive in this busy world while parenting three kiddos. I spent my twenties at war with my vagina and searching for the grand orgasm. Along the way I found out that the keys to better sex are the keys to a better life and that listening to my V (ahem that’s code for vagina) made a happier Me.
I’m excited to see you here at the Happy V. Come find us on Insta, I’m always up for a DM (no dic pics please haha).
Sick of a sexual stalemate after kids?
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What Do They Say
"Our naked sexy fun times was a success. It really made out intentions clear (connecting, relaxing with each other and having positive experience). We went to bed late, but grateful and happy! We appreciate Sofia's easy to follow tips and strategies to help rekindle the sparks and prioritizing our intimacy."
Reclaim Your Sexy Participant
"I took to the class to unpack some trauma I was bringing into my relationship and to feel more comfortable with my partner. I came out with some simple tools to use every day and a sense of self confidence that is unparalleled to what I've ever gotten before. Her empathy and direct feedback are incredible."
Sex After Kids Masterclass Participant
"Through the workshop I learned that I am a strong independent woman and I am proud of myself. It's ok to be free and not worry about everything that could happen. There are different types of sexy - it's ok to be me."
Reclaim Your Sexy Participant
"We had sexy time for the first time in a year - and it was pain free! With your tools we were able to take it slow and help my body get enjoy things even with all that painful intercourse in the past"
Naked Fun Comeback Participant
"It's important to think about sex and pleasure, and about me, my wants and needs, my partner and the confidence to go after what I want."
Coaching Client
"I was interested in Sofia's approach to discussing sexuality from the moment i saw her website. She has a very straight-forward way of speaking about sex using the words and experiences of what felt like real women. Her space was warm and comfortable and there was nothing intimidating about opening up to her. From our conversations I was reassured that the difficulties I was experiencing with sex were actually quite normal. Sofia even accompanied me to the local sex shop to show me what was what. Great service, all around."
Coaching Client
