Being Best Friends Is Not Saving Your Sex Life
If you and your partner would call yourselves best friends, this one is for you. I am going to say something that might annoy you, but it will help you.
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One part science of science, one part magic, and one part real talk for busy parents (of all identities) who want to find the play and the sexy in their couple connection after kids
New Episodes Every Tuesday
We dish...
Dispatches from the bedroom
Tips and tools to get grounded into your pleasure
My fave tools for connecting with each other post kids
Info and inspiration to help you figure out what’s got you in a sexual stalemate and how to get out of it
No judgement advice for all partners
Recent Episodes
The Sex After Kids Podcast
No, My Marriage Isn't Some Magical Unicorn
I know what some of you think. Of course she has a great sex life. Her marriage must be rock solid. Her partner must be some amazing magical unicorn guy. Or, well, she's a sex coach, so of course she cares about sex, she's the magical unicorn woman.
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Why Waiting for Your Libido to Come Back Is the Hard Way
I got an email the other day from a woman saying some version of what I hear almost every day. My libido is probably my biggest problem.
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Ten Years and Three Kids Later, My Libido Was on Ice
Ten years into my relationship, two babies and one stepkid later, my libido was on ice.
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The Four Secret Ingredients to a Fab Sex Life After Kids (And Why More Toys Won't Fix It)
But if you're missing the four core ingredients underneath, the props don't have anywhere to land.
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You Don't Have a Sex Problem. You Have a Skills Problem.
Why the magic disappeared after kids — and why waiting for it to come back is the wrong plan entirely.
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Take the Solve Your Sex Drive Quiz
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