Five Ways You're Accidentally Killing the Spark (And How to Fix the Dynamic)
You're trying harder than ever to be a good partner. But some of what you think is helping..
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One part science of science, one part magic, and one part real talk for busy parents (of all identities) who want to find the play and the sexy in their couple connection after kids
New Episodes Every Tuesday
We dish...
Dispatches from the bedroom
Tips and tools to get grounded into your pleasure
My fave tools for connecting with each other post kids
Info and inspiration to help you figure out what’s got you in a sexual stalemate and how to get out of it
No judgement advice for all partners
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The Sex After Kids Podcast
If Therapy Didn't Fix Your Sex Life… Why Would This?
You've done therapy. You've had the hard conversations. You're still lying in bed feeling like room.
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What Actually Happens When Couples Start Working on Their Sex Life
It's not just more sex. Here are the 5 real shifts that happen when couples start doing this work.
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Sex After Kids: 16 Date Nights to Fix Your Sex Life and Have Fun Again
What could be different in 16 date nights
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The 5 Habits of Couples Who Actually Love Their Sex Life (Even After Kids)
Feeling stuck in survival mode with your partner especially as parents? In this episode, I tell you the five habits that help couples with kids reignite intimacy and enjoy a playful, connected sex life, even with toddlers, teens, and years together.
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My Ex Gave Me an Ultimatum About Our Sex Life... And He Was Right
This is a love letter for anyone who's lost touch with desire and feels the weight of expectation after kids. In this episode, I unpack the truth behind "not tonight," why it's not your fault, and how to rebuild intimacy one step at a time.
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