One part science of science, one part magic, and one part real talk for busy parents (of all identities) who want to find the play and the sexy in their couple connection after kids

New Episodes Every Tuesday

We dish...

  • Dispatches from the bedroom

  • Tips and tools to get grounded into your pleasure

  • My fave tools for connecting with each other post kids

  • Info and inspiration to help you figure out what’s got you in a sexual stalemate and how to get out of it

  • No judgement advice for all partners

Recent Episodes

The Sex After Kids Podcast

Your Partner's in Perimenopause? Why Your Flirting Isn't Working

Your Partner's in Perimenopause? Why Your Flirting Isn't Working

Let’s be honest. If you're the one with the higher libido, you know the feeling all too well: the flutter of hope when you reach out, followed by the crushing weight of rejection. But what if I told you the "no" has almost nothing to do with you? All on this week's episode of the Sex After Kids Podcast!

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 Your Hormones Aren’t Just Messing with Your Mood,  They Might Be Messing with Your Marriage

Your Hormones Aren’t Just Messing with Your Mood, They Might Be Messing with Your Marriage

Midlife hormonal changes like perimenopause and andropause can wreak havoc on your sex life and relationship. Here's what to know — and how to stay connected instead of drifting apart.

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Perimenopause & Libido: A guide for you and your partner

Perimenopause & Libido: A guide for you and your partner

Perimenopause comes in hot with hormonal chaos, body changes, and so many reasons to hit the brakes on intimacy. This week on the Sex After Kids Podcast, we're continuing our perimenopause series!

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Perimenopause is Wrecking Our Sex Life — What Now?

Perimenopause is Wrecking Our Sex Life — What Now?

Is perimenopause slowly turning your sex life into a roommate situation? In this episode, we're kicking off our perimenopause + Intimacy series and talking about what’s actually going on during this "second puberty"

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