Us Against the Problem

This episode of the Sex After Kids podcast delves into common challenges couples face in their sex lives after having children, focusing on the detrimental effects of the blame game and the significance of teamwork in overcoming creating a new sex life together. Sex is a team sport - let's talk about how to support each other to get to pleasure town.

00:32 The Biggest Mistake in Post-Kids Sex Life 0

0:50 Blaming Yourself or Your Partner

03:41 Common Thoughts and Misconceptions

05:07 Quit the Magical Thinking

05:40 Taking Action and Working Together

06:51 Building Connection Through Challenges

07:26 The Growing Disconnection in Relationships

08:05 The Blame Game: Self vs. Partner

08:57 Problematizing Libidos and Gender Scripts

10:31 Engaging Partners in the Solution

11:46 The Power of Working Together

13:27 Creating Magic Together

14:00 Final Thoughts and Call to Action