What’s Wrong with My Libido After Kids - Part 2

In this episode of the Sex After Kids podcast we continue our series exploring what factors impact libido and our desire and drive to have sex and connect with our partner after kids. In part 2 we explore the emotional dynamics at play including: the importance of communication, equitable division of labor, and modeling healthy intimacy for children. Practical advice, including resources like 'Fair Play,' and reflections on trauma, shame, and societal expectations round out the conversation. The episode encourages listeners to engage in dialogue and reflect on their personal experiences.

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:29 Understanding the Brick Wall

01:48 Exploring Emotional Shifts

03:01 Gender Scripts and Relationship Dynamics

05:37 Impact of Parenting on Intimacy

11:19 Emotional and Hormonal Interplay

13:56 Body Image and Self-Perception

16:09 The Importance of Healthy Intimacy

16:51 Navigating Postpartum Sexual Concerns

18:19 Addressing Emotional Bricks in Relationships

21:30 The Impact of Gender Scripts on Relationships

25:37 Balancing Chores and Emotional Labor

27:22 Cultural Narratives and Sexual Shame

28:42 Understanding Trauma and Sexual Boundaries

30:15 Conclusion and Final Thoughts